So I just woke up feeling a little negative. Any girl/ boy knows the struggle of having to deal with insecurity even when you’re the most confident.
I haven’t always been a confident person and I still haven’t reached the level of confidence I need to be truly happy within myself. That means im working on myself daily to accomplish my goals but the hater hoe vibes start to set in.
Am I pretty enough? Am I even attractive? I look ugly, I hate this outfit on me, I can’t wear that, I wish my hair was like hers, I wish I had his confidence or can I even do this?
One main thing I noticed is the pattern of insecurity only comes around when it’s time to face new challenges “worry of not fitting in or standing out too much” because of social anxiety.
The insecurities all seem to be visual and based on other people and how other people view me. As I’ve grown up I’ve also grown to care less and less about what other people view me as, I am my own person and I’ve fought very hard along the years to be who I am now and be accepted for it.
It takes a lot to come out of your comfort zone and it takes even more to make a bold step that will throw you into a pit of all your worst fears! How you choose to accept this challenge with life will help you come out and stand up to all those insecurities you face.
Opportunity always knocks, I have to admit I’ve been victim to insecurity and missed tons of opportunity in life because I thought I wasn’t good enough. I am good enough.
Or in the words of Beyoncé
Whenever you feel like you can’t do something always always do it! Why? Because even if you fail you will always remember you tried and it will motivate you to do better and it will break away insecurity.
Anyway on a more positive vibe I’d just like to say to anyone who reads my posts it helps me a lot when you guys leave a comment as feedback so I’d appreciate it on my post so I know you guys like them 🙂
Have a lovely day where ever you guys are, always smile you are worth it I promise.