Happiness.


When you let go of things that hurt you, break you, make you weak or trap you it allows your vision and mind to become clearer.
I’ve let go of and learnt so many lesson in the past year that I will never go back to, I changed for the better and to be kind to myself and allow myself to feel free and love freely. 

I used to block out emotion for years not realising it only made me more sensitive and unwelcoming, as I’ve explained in my other blogs I used to be very insecure and not confident within myself which projected negative energy in everything I did or associated myself with. 

I know there’s people out there that are so stubborn and set in their ways it really makes me wonder how much of a genuine person they are? True they could be hurt by deep rooted issues but live and let go. Allow yourself to be loved and give love, be kind to people, don’t act like you’re humble actually be humble and help people, be positive and creative. Make wrong moves and go down dark paths because you will end up in the light but only if you let go of negativity. 

But it’s true that you can’t change your life in one night, you have to learn how to adapt to people around you even change who you hang around with. Close minded people really irritate me it’s like dude why hate from behind your window when you can come outside and enjoy your life. People that choose to make happy people unhappy are horrible and you need to stay away from haters like that. Or brush them away. 

There’s no arguing with a fool, a narcissistic loser or more so somebody who is stubborn so what I’ve learnt is you can’t bring yourself down to help someone who can’t be helped. It’s not your problem! I’m a very nurturing person and probably a big enabler and that’s something I need to work on because you can’t let everybody walk all over you just because “you’re too nice” the world doesn’t understand that language, if there’s places you want to be or need to go straight savage mode is what will get you there but always remain true to yourself! 

I made this post today because currently I’m in bed getting enough sleep before my night shift *sad music* LOL 

But I just wanted to be real with you, or anyone who is going to read this. The sun is poking its way through the blinds now so I probably should get out of bed and make breakfast or brunch. 

The start of the week has been positive for me and that’s a big deal in my world, having to deal with happy days and sad days is a challenge not everybody understands. 

But hope you have a good day. 

Makeup and beauty posts for the weekend so look out for that.

Bye babes, 

A x

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The Right Path || Gaining Self Confidence 


Hey babes so, 

When life’s path has two directions with arrows pointing either side it’s very hard to determine which path to take. But which one do you take? Putting yourself in a situation where it seems like it’s the world against little old you, which star do you follow back home? 

I’m currently in a situation where I don’t know which direction to turn, crazy I know 😫 and honestly it’s driving me mad. 
On one hand I’ve been given an opportunity to take which is something I’ve been working so hard for, but on the other hand the path that leads that way is a bumpy road so what should I do?! 

I’m usually a confident person but I’m insecure at the same time, if that makes sense. So this makes it really hard for me to have self confidence or believe I’m good enough. A lot of people have contributed to this feeling, the feeling of not being good enough for something or someone and it’s harder each time to break out of that habit of doubting yourself. It’s an unavoidable situation because people won’t always have your best interests and they won’t always 100% be there for you. 

Anxiety really is your biggest hater in these situations! Here’s a few tips of how to get rid of this feeling. 

  1. Believe in yourself
  2. Ask a friend for advice
  3. And do what makes you feel confident
  4. Re-evaluate your situation and ask yourself can I do this
  5. Realise that the answer is yes you can
  6. Make a list or plan what your next step is
  7. Don’t listen or associate with negative people
  8. Surround yourself with positivity
  9. Avoid loneliness
  10. Remember who you are 

I know I need to follow my own advice and that’s exactly what I’m going to do! I’m going to fully focus on my future and life goals and slay them all 💛 


Like and comment! 

Let me know what I can do and whether or not I should take the opportunity?

A x

Tuesday morning || The Vibe for the day. 

My thoughts for today are very confused, I’ve been feeling as if there’s something beyond where I’m standing in life right now, somewhere I have to go I just haven’t figured out the path yet.

Negativity gets the best of us when we feel like the world is against us, but trying to turn that into positive energy is the tricky part.


I’ve always believed things have to get worse before they get better. Tough times are simply lessons in life that will test you, they will come in the form of friends who aren’t really there for you, troubled thoughts, insecurity and many other things.

That wall that you hit before something magical occurs is a temporary barrier between you and your goals, the aim is to not stop at the wall, fight through the wall!

I have been and passed this wall many times! And I always assume I’ll see the last of it but here I am yet again facing the barrier between me and my goals. I know where I want to be in life I mean I’ve never been the type of girl to have a clear direction as us Gemini gals are indecisive ♊️ LOL but that hasn’t stopped me from creating new goals and aspiring to be something better than I am.

I am a sensitive yet assertive character due to my dual personality I can be everything and the complete opposite. For quite some time I had a lot of self hate for the way I was, I hated how kind I am, how gentle I am, how selfless I can be and most of all I didn’t like how I would put other people before myself.


Even though these things are great qualities to possess nobody ever addresses how heavy these emotions are to carry. One thing I realised is that I shouldn’t or you shouldn’t be made to feel like being nice or kind is a bad thing!

Although people do take advantage and have hidden agendas just remember in a room full of people with bad intentions you will always be that good soul, the good person that the world needs.

Have a positive day and try to make somebody smile today.

A x