When life’s path has two directions with arrows pointing either side it’s very hard to determine which path to take. But which one do you take? Putting yourself in a situation where it seems like it’s the world against little old you, which star do you follow back home?
I’m currently in a situation where I don’t know which direction to turn, crazy I know 😫 and honestly it’s driving me mad.
On one hand I’ve been given an opportunity to take which is something I’ve been working so hard for, but on the other hand the path that leads that way is a bumpy road so what should I do?!
I’m usually a confident person but I’m insecure at the same time, if that makes sense. So this makes it really hard for me to have self confidence or believe I’m good enough. A lot of people have contributed to this feeling, the feeling of not being good enough for something or someone and it’s harder each time to break out of that habit of doubting yourself. It’s an unavoidable situation because people won’t always have your best interests and they won’t always 100% be there for you.
Anxiety really is your biggest hater in these situations! Here’s a few tips of how to get rid of this feeling.
- Believe in yourself
- Ask a friend for advice
- And do what makes you feel confident
- Re-evaluate your situation and ask yourself can I do this
- Realise that the answer is yes you can
- Make a list or plan what your next step is
- Don’t listen or associate with negative people
- Surround yourself with positivity
- Avoid loneliness
- Remember who you are
I know I need to follow my own advice and that’s exactly what I’m going to do! I’m going to fully focus on my future and life goals and slay them all 💛
Let me know what I can do and whether or not I should take the opportunity?