The Right Path || Gaining Self Confidence 


Hey babes so, 

When life’s path has two directions with arrows pointing either side it’s very hard to determine which path to take. But which one do you take? Putting yourself in a situation where it seems like it’s the world against little old you, which star do you follow back home? 

I’m currently in a situation where I don’t know which direction to turn, crazy I know 😫 and honestly it’s driving me mad. 
On one hand I’ve been given an opportunity to take which is something I’ve been working so hard for, but on the other hand the path that leads that way is a bumpy road so what should I do?! 

I’m usually a confident person but I’m insecure at the same time, if that makes sense. So this makes it really hard for me to have self confidence or believe I’m good enough. A lot of people have contributed to this feeling, the feeling of not being good enough for something or someone and it’s harder each time to break out of that habit of doubting yourself. It’s an unavoidable situation because people won’t always have your best interests and they won’t always 100% be there for you. 

Anxiety really is your biggest hater in these situations! Here’s a few tips of how to get rid of this feeling. 

  1. Believe in yourself
  2. Ask a friend for advice
  3. And do what makes you feel confident
  4. Re-evaluate your situation and ask yourself can I do this
  5. Realise that the answer is yes you can
  6. Make a list or plan what your next step is
  7. Don’t listen or associate with negative people
  8. Surround yourself with positivity
  9. Avoid loneliness
  10. Remember who you are 

I know I need to follow my own advice and that’s exactly what I’m going to do! I’m going to fully focus on my future and life goals and slay them all 💛 


Like and comment! 

Let me know what I can do and whether or not I should take the opportunity?

A x

Happy Sunday || How to create sunshine in a storm

So it’s Happy Sunday, but am I happy? Hmm. I’ve had one of those weeks where I’ve been close to giving up on a lot of things I’ve put my heart and soul into. 
It always comes back to people, one thing you can’t avoid in this world is people. We meet people everyday, we know people, we talk to people, we LIVE with people!! 


 So trying to make a life without the interference of people or their opinion is very difficult and it’s even harder to not think like them. Yeah yeah I know well don’t follow the crowd right? But that’s ignorance to me, I value people’s opinions and appreciate how they feel and if you’re the type of person to put others before you then continue to do so, because the world would need that one person who can create a sunshine in a storm. 


Steps to staying positive when things aren’t going right:
1. Smile – always always smile

2. Laugh – make your own jokes and laugh who cares!

3. Let go – when you see things aren’t right let it go because chances are it’s not worth stressing yourself over 

4. Slay all day – make sure you check yourself boo boo and be confident 

5. Observe – always be aware of what’s going on around you

6. Set the vibe – listen to that throwback song that makes you feel good 

7. Believe you’re beautiful – cherish that thing that makes you different from everyone else 

8. Help someone out – a good deed of the day really helps

9. Talk that talk – say what you want when you want be open and truthful 

10. Motivation – push yourself to do things you wouldn’t normally do, learn from the mistakes and gain knowledge 
I’m still waiting for the day I feel accomplished in my life but I know it takes a lot of hard work and dedication which is what I’m trying to do but life’s trying me girl and truthfully I want to give up. 

On a more happier note I feel good. I’ve learnt a lot this week. 

And I feel optimistic, it’s okay to have off days just as long as it’s not everyday because I like happy people and you should always be one of them. 
A x 

Tuesday morning || The Vibe for the day. 

My thoughts for today are very confused, I’ve been feeling as if there’s something beyond where I’m standing in life right now, somewhere I have to go I just haven’t figured out the path yet.

Negativity gets the best of us when we feel like the world is against us, but trying to turn that into positive energy is the tricky part.


I’ve always believed things have to get worse before they get better. Tough times are simply lessons in life that will test you, they will come in the form of friends who aren’t really there for you, troubled thoughts, insecurity and many other things.

That wall that you hit before something magical occurs is a temporary barrier between you and your goals, the aim is to not stop at the wall, fight through the wall!

I have been and passed this wall many times! And I always assume I’ll see the last of it but here I am yet again facing the barrier between me and my goals. I know where I want to be in life I mean I’ve never been the type of girl to have a clear direction as us Gemini gals are indecisive ♊️ LOL but that hasn’t stopped me from creating new goals and aspiring to be something better than I am.

I am a sensitive yet assertive character due to my dual personality I can be everything and the complete opposite. For quite some time I had a lot of self hate for the way I was, I hated how kind I am, how gentle I am, how selfless I can be and most of all I didn’t like how I would put other people before myself.


Even though these things are great qualities to possess nobody ever addresses how heavy these emotions are to carry. One thing I realised is that I shouldn’t or you shouldn’t be made to feel like being nice or kind is a bad thing!

Although people do take advantage and have hidden agendas just remember in a room full of people with bad intentions you will always be that good soul, the good person that the world needs.

Have a positive day and try to make somebody smile today.

A x