VIBE || Cassie Ft Rick Ross – Numb


 So I’ve been on a mellow vibe today, everything has been relaxed and paced around me. 

Which I can’t complain about since I’m used to a busy schedule, it has gave me time to reflect on some things I want to gain for the week. 
I’ve literally been listening to this song all day!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiRY4Y3GlZ4 

And it’s perfect to set the mood for mellow vibes. 

Good vibes and goodnight babes.

A x

Happy Sunday || How to create sunshine in a storm

So it’s Happy Sunday, but am I happy? Hmm. I’ve had one of those weeks where I’ve been close to giving up on a lot of things I’ve put my heart and soul into. 
It always comes back to people, one thing you can’t avoid in this world is people. We meet people everyday, we know people, we talk to people, we LIVE with people!! 


 So trying to make a life without the interference of people or their opinion is very difficult and it’s even harder to not think like them. Yeah yeah I know well don’t follow the crowd right? But that’s ignorance to me, I value people’s opinions and appreciate how they feel and if you’re the type of person to put others before you then continue to do so, because the world would need that one person who can create a sunshine in a storm. 


Steps to staying positive when things aren’t going right:
1. Smile – always always smile

2. Laugh – make your own jokes and laugh who cares!

3. Let go – when you see things aren’t right let it go because chances are it’s not worth stressing yourself over 

4. Slay all day – make sure you check yourself boo boo and be confident 

5. Observe – always be aware of what’s going on around you

6. Set the vibe – listen to that throwback song that makes you feel good 

7. Believe you’re beautiful – cherish that thing that makes you different from everyone else 

8. Help someone out – a good deed of the day really helps

9. Talk that talk – say what you want when you want be open and truthful 

10. Motivation – push yourself to do things you wouldn’t normally do, learn from the mistakes and gain knowledge 
I’m still waiting for the day I feel accomplished in my life but I know it takes a lot of hard work and dedication which is what I’m trying to do but life’s trying me girl and truthfully I want to give up. 

On a more happier note I feel good. I’ve learnt a lot this week. 

And I feel optimistic, it’s okay to have off days just as long as it’s not everyday because I like happy people and you should always be one of them. 
A x 

Tuesday morning || The Vibe for the day. 

My thoughts for today are very confused, I’ve been feeling as if there’s something beyond where I’m standing in life right now, somewhere I have to go I just haven’t figured out the path yet.

Negativity gets the best of us when we feel like the world is against us, but trying to turn that into positive energy is the tricky part.


I’ve always believed things have to get worse before they get better. Tough times are simply lessons in life that will test you, they will come in the form of friends who aren’t really there for you, troubled thoughts, insecurity and many other things.

That wall that you hit before something magical occurs is a temporary barrier between you and your goals, the aim is to not stop at the wall, fight through the wall!

I have been and passed this wall many times! And I always assume I’ll see the last of it but here I am yet again facing the barrier between me and my goals. I know where I want to be in life I mean I’ve never been the type of girl to have a clear direction as us Gemini gals are indecisive ♊️ LOL but that hasn’t stopped me from creating new goals and aspiring to be something better than I am.

I am a sensitive yet assertive character due to my dual personality I can be everything and the complete opposite. For quite some time I had a lot of self hate for the way I was, I hated how kind I am, how gentle I am, how selfless I can be and most of all I didn’t like how I would put other people before myself.


Even though these things are great qualities to possess nobody ever addresses how heavy these emotions are to carry. One thing I realised is that I shouldn’t or you shouldn’t be made to feel like being nice or kind is a bad thing!

Although people do take advantage and have hidden agendas just remember in a room full of people with bad intentions you will always be that good soul, the good person that the world needs.

Have a positive day and try to make somebody smile today.

A x

Happy Saturday || The Vibe

Hey bae,

So I just woke up feeling a little negative. Any girl/ boy knows the struggle of having to deal with insecurity even when you’re the most confident. 

I haven’t always been a confident person and I still haven’t reached the level of confidence I need to be truly happy within myself. That means im working on myself daily to accomplish my goals but the hater hoe vibes start to set in.

Am I pretty enough? Am I even attractive? I look ugly, I hate this outfit on me, I can’t wear that, I wish my hair was like hers, I wish I had his confidence or can I even do this? 

The answer?


One main thing I noticed is the pattern of insecurity only comes around when it’s time to face new challenges “worry of not fitting in or standing out too much” because of social anxiety. 
The insecurities all seem to be visual and based on other people and how other people view me. As I’ve grown up I’ve also grown to care less and less about what other people view me as, I am my own person and I’ve fought very hard along the years to be who I am now and be accepted for it. 

It takes a lot to come out of your comfort zone and it takes even more to make a bold step that will throw you into a pit of all your worst fears! How you choose to accept this challenge with life will help you come out and stand up to all those insecurities you face.

Opportunity always knocks, I have to admit I’ve been victim to insecurity and missed tons of opportunity in life because I thought I wasn’t good enough. I am good enough. 

Or in the words of Beyoncé 


Whenever you feel like you can’t do something always always do it! Why? Because even if you fail you will always remember you tried and it will motivate you to do better and it will break away insecurity. 

Anyway on a more positive vibe I’d just like to say to anyone who reads my posts it helps me a lot when you guys leave a comment as feedback so I’d appreciate it on my post so I know you guys like them 🙂 

Have a lovely day where ever you guys are, always smile you are worth it I promise.
A x